Reader, A quick update on what I've been up to: 💻 Community Liberation Sessions, (formerly Decolonized Consultation Sessions) start today. And you're welcome to join us live if you have a cancellation or watch it later (limited replay available.)This is a virtual gathering space for therapists, healers, and space-holders practicing decolonization — in real time.We'll answer questions, process dilemmas, and learn together how to support a decolonial practice.Learn more below or here. I...
5 days ago • 2 min read
March 2026 Reader, At the end of the Gregorian year, I took a full month off from therapy clients. And I actually took time off. I didn’t check my work email, I disconnected completely, and I left out-of-office messages everywhere they could possibly live. I intentionally didn’t plan a vacation. I stayed home to, I guess, hang out with myself. No specific plans. No productivity goals. No “use this time wisely” strategy. Just a stack of books that I promised myself I would peruse, not finish...
7 days ago • 5 min read
Reader, A quick update on what I've been up to: 💻 Community Liberation Sessions, (formerly Decolonized Consultation Sessions) start next week. This is a virtual gathering space for therapists, healers, and space-holders practicing decolonization — in real time.We'll answer questions, process dilemmas, and learn together how to support a decolonial practice.Learn more below or here. Let’s be clear: therapy is political. When a client walks into our office, chances are they bring with them a...
12 days ago • 2 min read
Reader, A quick update on what I've been up to: 💻 Community Liberation Sessions, (formerly Decolonized Consultation Sessions) start in two weeks! Learn more below or get in the waitlist here. One thing they don’t teach you in grad school (or in any certification program really) is policies. Do you charge for a late cancellation or no-show? Do you keep a card on file? How do you “make” people agree to your policies? Yes, yes, this is a piece of cake for some clinicians. But not all of us are...
19 days ago • 3 min read
Hey Reader, It’s finally here! 🎉 Community Liberation Sessions (formerly Decolonized Consultation Sessions) are open for signup. Pick the group that fits you: BIPoC clinicians group white clinicians group Unsure which group to join?Learn more about affinity groups first Or read more about the sessions if it’s your first time joining Can’t wait to see you in the virtual room, ready to bring your questions, tensions, and real-life experiences. 💬 Have a question you want answered in the...
23 days ago • 1 min read
Reader, A quick update on what I've been up to: 💻 Community Liberation Sessions, (formerly Decolonized Consultation Sessions) a live, collective space for therapists, healers, and space-holders interrupting colonial patterns in their work and practicing liberation in real time — not just talking about it.We bring our tensions, contradictions, and lived realities into the room and work through them together.If you’ve been craving practice, not performance, this space is for you.Learn more...
26 days ago • 3 min read
February 2026 Reader, I belong to the subgroup of clinicians who became therapists because they went to therapy and… it worked! Therapy helped me so i wanted to help others though therapy… does that sound familiar? I joined an undergraduate program in psychology in 2004. I completed my clinical psychology internship at the local Air Force hospital in 2009. Of course I didn’t love the specialty classes. Of course I was lit up by philosophy and psychology, literature and psychology, sociology...
about 1 month ago • 4 min read
Reader, I’ve been reflecting on the fact that my prescheduled emails told you I was in deep rest mode, and now I’m questioning that. I think the news — and the pace and volume of it — really took a toll on me, and I’m still recovering from it. I don’t think I achieved deep rest.That is okay in the sense that this is useful information: more is happening ⇒ systems are escalating ⇒ it’s harder to return to any kind of baseline ⇒ this informs me about what may also be happening for the...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
[from the archives] Reader, This is something that keeps coming up in conversations with other clinicians: and it's even more relevant now in 2026... even though i wrote this a while back How do we keep showing up for our clients when we’re moving through so much ourselves? When the world feels like it’s on fire, and we’re holding stories that mirror our own pain? Let’s be real: Being a therapist or healer in a chaotic world (to say the least) often means holding other people’s grief while...
about 2 months ago • 2 min read
You’re receiving this pre-scheduled message while I’m deep in rest-mode (yes, actual rest; yes, again).So if something major is happening in the world right this minute, this email won’t reflect it — but I’m still holding you with care across whatever landscape you’re in. Reader, Some of the people I started following this year — and learning from... They’re not your conventional therapy resources. Far from it. None of them are “therapists” in the Western sense, but they are community...
2 months ago • 1 min read